Is It the Message—or Our Hearts?
When the spirit flees in the middle of a lesson at church, we may be tempted to blame a comment shared, but we may have a bigger responsibility ourselves. You see, the spirit cannot be fully present when hard feelings exist between the saints in the room. It may not be what is said, but how you feel about the speaker. Another possibility would be our reaction to an uncomfortable truth that has stung us and which we do not wish to see. In those cases, it is easier to turn from the truth and perhaps blame the person making the statement for offending us and letting anger hide an opportunity for unwelcome growth. In many spiritual traditions, it's taught that the presence of divine peace or inspiration can be hindered not just by what is said, but by the disposition of those listening. This invites a deeper reflection: when someone speaks and discomfort arises, is the disruption caused by the speaker’s words—or by the quiet resistance within us? Even when someone speaks...