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Valiant or Contentious? Learning the Difference from the Life of Christ

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In today’s culture, we often treat any discomfort as contention. If a conversation feels tense, if a truth stings, or if a correction disrupts the status quo, we assume someone has been “contentious.”   But scripture paints a very different picture. Christ Himself was often direct, confrontational, and uncompromising—yet never contentious.   And modern prophets teach that disciples must be valiant in the testimony of Jesus, not passive, fearful, or silent. 1 This post explores the difference between contention and valiant testimony , using Christ’s own ministry as the model. What Contention Actually Is (and Isn’t) LDS scripture is unambiguous: “He that hath the spirit of contention is not of me” ( 3 Nephi 11:29 ).   Contention is anger‑driven, ego‑driven, and adversarial.   It seeks to win, not to heal.   It springs from pride, not love. But confrontation—truth spoken clearly, boldly, and lovingly—is not only allowed but required of di...

Fear of Man vs. Faith in God: Why We Hesitate to Speak Plainly

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Today, I was struck by the phrase “ with sharpness ” in Doctrine and Covenants 121:43 . In our culture of heightened sensitivity, we often hesitate to speak plainly, fearing we might offend or unsettle. But in our effort to be gentle, we sometimes cross a line—from compassion into compromise. We begin to soften truth not out of love, but out of fear. And in doing so, we risk being untrue to ourselves, to God, and to those we’re called to love with honesty. The Lord has warned against this very impulse: “ you feared man more than God ” ( D&C 3:7 ). When we let the fear of disapproval outweigh our duty to truth, we trade divine trust for temporary peace. Correction, when needed, is rarely comfortable. It can sting. It can wound pride. And if the heart receiving it is not humble, it may even provoke anger. But discomfort is not the same as harm. In fact, when someone is wandering, a vague or diluted warning may do more damage than a clear, courageous word. To s...